At last, a Plant Hotel!

Each time I have to move out of Pune for more than a day, my biggest fear is for my plants. My small bonsai collection, few perennials and the usual foliage pots are my extended family. I had read of a ‘hotel’ for pets when owners travel or are on a holiday and desperately felt the need for a similar plant hotel.

Quite by chance I came across an article about Plant Doctors in the Good Housekeeping magazine March 2009 issue. Green Carpet – The Garden Centre offers a home for plants when we are away. They have centres at Delhi, Chandigarh, Mumbai, Surat, Goa, Hyderabad, Bangalore, Coorg, Cochin and Pune (Hooray!)… According to the article, the centre also offers help for a sick plant. Click here to visit the Green Carpet website. Location addresses are available on the ‘Network’ bar on the home page.
I have yet to use their services but for those with travel plans this summer holidays this may be worth checking out. Those of you who have experience of this or other such centres, do share your views.
As for me, I can now plan a holiday this year that I was partially avoiding due to my plants. 
Happy Holidays!

Jai Ho!

The expected has happened finally. Slumdog Millionaire has cast its spell on the Academy awards winning eight golden statuettes. Jai Ho!

Labelled as poverty porn the movie was not as popular in India as elsewhere probably but certainly sparked off several debates about how and why poverty should be depicted and that too by non-Indians.
Danny Boyle has done well in bringing out hope, innovation and a never say die attitude.
An attitude there for everyone to see yet we simply turn our minds away, close our eyes and wish them away except ofcourse for getting our jobs done….
Congratulations!

Love is..

14 Feb came and as is wont over past few years created a furrow about its Indian context, moral police, definition of liberty, women’s rights etc…

Rather than add to this debate, I would like to highlight some aspects of love as you cross the forties threshold:
Love is:
Sharing your near distance spectacles with your spouse
Making sure to buy figs or soft fruits along with any apples/pears that you may like
Giving up sugar/salt in your diet
Going for a walk each morning with your spouse even if you would rather spend the hour doing a step class/play a round of golf
Using headphones to listen to your favourite radio/TV program instead of turning up the volume
The ad world too eggs seniors on to demonstrate their affection.
I am sure there would be hundreds more examples of what love means to each one of us…
Happiness always..

A Dream Come True

They say a person’s age should be judged by how long he lives on in people’s memory rather than how many years he/she spend on earth. In that case, Dr Nitu Mandke continues to live today via thousands of people he had operated upon. An excellent cardiac surgeon, it was indeed a cruel turn of fate due to which he succumbed to a heart attack in 2003. It was his dream to build a cardiac hospital in Mumbai. His untimely death only delayed this effort. The hospital was inaugurated on 26 January 2009 in Mumbai, much bigger than originally planned and inclusive of other specialities as well.

Dr Nitu Mandke completed his school and medical education at Pune. His family and friends organise a program on 31 January each year to commemorate his birthday. The simple program yesterday devoid of undue emotionalism was highly motivating. A fitting tribute to a great human being.
Key take aways:
Like its important to get a good teacher, a teacher too looks out for a good student
Dream big and then stay focussed on your goal
Work towards your target one step at a time
14 Feb is round the corner. It is the Congenital Heart Defects Day. Spend a few minutes learning about this condition. Some congenital heart defects are completely curable and children go on to live meaningful happy lives.
Best!
Archana

Its Never too Late

Everyone says that this is an information age. All magazines and newspapers speak of advances in this field. Not to be left behind in this field, my husband, daughter and I too decided to invest in a Personal Computer ( P.C.) . We put in our precious savings into a 486 with a 1 GB HDD with 8 MB RAM and a SVGA colour monitor… Till that day, all these words meant next to nothing to us. But this acquisition propelled our family to the forefront of the information revolution. My husband had more ‘byte’ among his peers, my daughter boasted of painting in ‘Paint Brush’ in her school and I gained an upper hand in the Ladies club by dropping words like ‘word wrap’ and ‘screen savers’. We were eager learners. We grabbed all the Software like cones of ‘Softy’ ice-cream.

Time flies in the salubrious climate of Wellington. As fast as a Pentium 200 MHz machine. We had gained some proficiency and felt almost on top of the ‘PC World’. Our daughter was now quite adept at various programs. She had her own files and directories. My husband worked on his dissertation and presentations. I, too, was getting over my initial awe of the machine and was comfortable with Windows 95. Things like ‘ Viruses and Bugs’ seemed like aliens from a different world.

And then it happened! All of a sudden disaster struck! Our dear precious computer was infected with a ‘Virus’. At the flick of a button, the computer seemed to have lost its power of number crunching. The monitor showed unintelligent gibberish. It seemed as if an intelligent man had suddenly turned senile. The entire house was depressed. As if a close relative was diagnosed with a terminal disease. My husband stared at the screen for hours together. My daughter cried and cried. I said a special prayer that all would be well. But there seemed to be no remedy in sight.

We looked around for help. There were many ‘Doctors’ and some ‘Quacks’. Some had sympathy for our plight. Some had a sarcastic smile for our ignorance of anti virus software. Help came from unexpected quarters in the form of an anti virus programme. This programme cured the ‘infection’, again at the flick of a button! That is technology for us. Our PC was smiling and talking to us again. The ‘virus attack’ had strengthened the bond in the family. But, thereafter, we were spending more time with the PC than with each other. With the fear of a virus gone, we were freely experimenting with new software, interacting with more advanced programs and learning things faster than ever before. The horizons of the Computer world opened up for us only after the Virus attack.

A wise man has said that it is never too late to learn a new thing. I am sure he had a bug in his PC. And that bug taught him wisdom. The beauty of today’s technology is that it is user friendly. Our children learn faster because they have no inhibitions about spoiling the system. Let us all make the best use of science to broaden our horizons. It is never too late!

Baked Beans

Last night there was an unexpected “ farmaish” of ‘baked beans’ for dinner. Living out of the environs of an Air Force (AF) Station for over 4 years now, this request brought memories of our life there tumbling out.

Dining in the Officers Mess was always an option for all of us whether it was for an impromptu party or Tuesday lunch to savour ‘chole bhature’ or when the lady of the house decided she simply did not want to cook. Officers Messes in some AF stations boasted of such high standards of food that families regularly dined there.

However, by and large everyone agreed that food all places tasted the same. It was always a mystery to me how the cooks managed this feat with the tea, custard or the curries. All the vegetables were uniformly tasteless and we ladies being very finicky invariably found faults with the ‘rotis’. I always ordered ‘parathas’ on ‘extra messing’ which never disappointed.

As far as the vegetables went, ordering a tin of ‘baked beans’ or egg bhurjee (spicy scrambled eggs) again on ‘extra messing’ usually took care of that aspect of the menu. These humble preparations saved many a meal. Families awaiting accommodation had to dine in the Mess and they never complained at the monotony of these ‘extra dishes’. There were complaints galore for the freshly cooked subjees served…. I freely admit that I too have indulged in these inexplicable complaining sessions!

At one of our postings in the East, the ladies took an initiative and decided to help out the cooks in an attempt to improve the taste of the meals. That was the time I got an “insight” into the workings of mess kitchens. We came up with innovative spice combinations using ration issued condiments to help the cooks to prepare delicious preparations. Every lady lent her own special touch bringing a different personality to every meal menu. The ironic part was that most of us had never bothered to use the same innovation at our own homes, preferring instead to disdainfully away give the ration stuff to the maid and use the readymade packaged stuff instead!!!!!

On civil street today the privilege of dining in the Officers Mess in not available to me. The experience in the East had shown me the difficulties faced by the cooks and mess committees in catering and these were by and large same in most AF stations. This probably explained the uniformity in the taste. I however look at this aspect as a boon. At every posting the process of settling down at the new place is a testing one for the entire family. The comforting familiarity of the food makes the process that bit easier!

We have had the privilege of living in all parts of the country, interacting with some of the best people, bringing up our children in vast open spaces where the air was pure and fresh. Of course life was not easy – frequent postings, schooling that may not always be the best, limited professional opportunities for ladies – just to name a few, but given a second chance, I would not choose any other.

As we finished up the last of the beans and poured over old albums I mentally saluted the ‘baked beans’ for making the mess dining experience a memorable one!

Second Innings!

Such a well known term particularly in cricket crazy India.
Yet it can take on a different meaning for some of us non-cricketers in real life too!


Looking back, its been a year that I started writing this blog. A year full of new learning’s in this field that I had so tentatively entered into….
A move away from Physiotherapy! It seemed the unthinkable, more so for others than me…
That was my first innings….
I can’t say that I scored a ton, but I did my bit. Working with special kids, seeing their progress and most of all, seeing the joy in their parents face is something that I can never forget.
Working with adults was just as rewarding.


Yet something drew me towards a change, try out something new.
Why not? Its the norm of the day is it not…
So that’s how I began writing and slowly it became more and more important.
The second innings…
Thanks to you all who have been reading my thoughts and mailing in your comments.


Robert Frost’s words come to my mind:


Whose woods these are I think I know,
His house is in the village though.
He will not see me stopping here,
To watch his woods fill up with snow.

My little horse must think it queer,
To stop without a farmhouse near,
Between the woods and frozen lake,
The darkest evening of the year.

He gives his harness bells a shake,
To ask if there is some mistake.
The only other sound’s the sweep,
Of easy wind and downy flake.

The woods are lovely, dark and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep.”

Indulge Yourself!

On one of my usual retail jaunts around the city, I discovered ‘The Body Shop‘. I had seen the stores in London but the little digits printed on the labels put me off! Multiplying by 83 at lightning speeds and trying to look unconcerned can be extremely trying, so I just gave up.
But not for long!
I discovered their shop at the SGS Mall, Pune and decided that they deserved a visit from me. Armed with my reading glasses and my credit card I happily left my shopping bags with the security guard and took a close look at what was on offer.
And what an extensive range it was… skin care, eye, make-up, eye, bath and body, fragrance and hair range ‘pour hommes et femmes’.
Phew, just the ‘Try me’ samples were enough to drain me out and leave me completely confused as to what to choose. Products containing the familiar Vitamin C, E, Almonds, Jojoba, honey and oats and unfamiliar seaweed, blue corn, tree tea oil all had me wondering which would be the winner to restore my skin to its youthful glory…
But choose I did, and a few days of use had me completely sold out!
I heavily recommend their repair products. Chapped lips, cracked heels all disappear like magic leaving you feeling pampered, indulged and like a Queen….
Does that sound exaggerated? The Body Shop website says, “We believe that every woman has the right to feel fabulous, so we put our all into finding the highest quality natural ingredients, ethically and responsibly grown and bought, and turning them into innovative products, honestly marketed, and priced so that everyone can afford them.”
Don’t take my word for it. Check it out yourself.
Give it a try, you owe it to yourself!

Thank God for Modern medicine

Came across this story on the BBC website of medical marvel, grit and pain for a young boy. He suffered from fibular aplasia and was born with his right lower limb twisted backwards, without a fibula, ankle and had only three toes.
Michael Gays from Bramptom, Cambridgeshire is now 6ft 1 inch tall but has reached this stage after several surgeries to lengthen his leg, correct the muscles and tendons therein. Not deterred by his circumstances, Mr Gays plays golf and has an enviable handicap of eight. Now how many ‘normal’ people have this handicap?
Congratulations to the team of doctors at Royal Orthopaedic Hospital in Birmingham!

Click here for the entire story.
Archana

Small is Beautiful

The Friends of Bonsai-Pune recently exhibited their treasures in Pune. Lovingly nurtured at home by a group of 40 enthusiasts there were over 100 trees displayed here. Some had won international accolades, in recognition of the hard work and creativity put into the trees.

If one looked carefully it was possible to see different styles of Bonsai besides Saikei and murals. The thoughtful layout gave sufficient space for the true beauty of each design to shine through.

The hosts readily answered queries of those interested. The group mainly comprises of home makers – ladies who find time for this hobby despite all commitments that demands patience and creativity. Senior and experienced members as well as newbie bonsai cultivators showcased their trees.

The range of trees on display ranged from fruiting trees (Mango, chikoo, orange and lemon) to flowers like Kamini, Jacquinia, Bougainvilla, Hawthorne and Kunti. Grapes that grow on vines had been cultivated into a beautiful bonsai. Akelifa that is often grown as a hedge in Pune was grown into an attractive style. Several Wrightia exhibits had pretty tiny star shaped flowers. This plant is not easily available at nurseries. Also displayed were Mame bonsai and some with root exposed designs (last photo in the series above). Some trees were over 40 years old, which emphasised the amount of love and care going into nurturing them over the years.
A striking feature of the exhibition was that the group was not interested in money making. Nothing was for sale, a fact which surprised most visitors used as they are to exhibition cum sales that are dime a dozen in Pune.
Those who missed this year, do make it a point to watch out for their next display.
Stress has become an unavoidable part of our lives. This hobby allows us to be close to plants, develops patience and is a wonder de-stressor. As we lose so many trees to so called ‘development Bonsai offers a means to preserve a link to our past our memories of a city fast losing its green cover or to childhood memories of tree climbing, swings etc. Plant a tree today, nurture it.
Discover a new friend.
Smiles!